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I can say from years of experience that the physical aspect of herpes are not a big deal as long as you take care of yourself properly. You can’t get it from accidentally using my toothbrush or from sharing a Coke with me.
I’m not gross or a freak or a slut (nor is anyone else who has or had an STD).
I’m just a person who made a mistake when I was younger and is stuck dealing with the consequences for the rest of my life. I don’t have to take a daily medicine like Valtrex and I haven’t had an outbreak in years.
The only time I really have to think about herpes is when I start dating someone. Herpes affects my life, but I’m way, way more than my STD.
I wasn’t very mature when we went out and I don’t think I could have handled a responsible conversation about it.
But herpes just makes you get warts or sores sometimes, so it’s OK to laugh at people who suffer from it.
Around two-thirds of people worldwide under age 50 have herpes simplex 1, according to the World Health Organization, and around one in every six Americans between ages 14 and 49 has genital herpes, usually caused by herpes simplex 2, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
Both Davis and Carlson eventually moved past their initial panic and saw herpes for what it is: an infection many people have that happens to usually get passed through sexual contact.
The infection, which is caused by the herpes simplex 1 and herpes simplex 2 viruses and passed via skin-to-skin contact, can show up as a cluster of sores on the mouth area or genitals.
It can also be asymptomatic, so most people with herpes don’t know they have it, which is a large part of the reason why it’s so prevalent.But I was in so much pain that I knew something else was amiss. An even larger portion of the population — 80% to 90% — have the virus for oral herpes, but some people never have symptoms and never know. When I finally felt ready to get back out into the dating world, I dreaded broaching that conversation with guys.I even considered getting back together with my ex just because it meant I wouldn’t have to tell other men about herpes or worry about someone else getting it from me.I probably laughed at some of those jokes, too, before I had herpes.