Dating artistic men
Don’t stick around and try to prove him wrong, it’s a losing battle.If you’re already dating him: Tell him something like “Look, I’m not into doing the casual, undefined thing.It’s also likely that he isn’t over his last girlfriend, this is especially true of guys who start acting like a boyfriend after only a few dates.His behavior isn’t so much a sign of his feelings for you as it is an indicator that he simply misses being in a relationship.If he feels great about himself when he’s around you, he’ll want to keep you around and he will make more of an effort to keep you in his life. It could take months or years for his situation to turn around.Instead of thinking about how great everything will be when he gets himself sorted, take him as he is right here and now.If you’re already dating him: Don’t try to pump him up or find a job for him or offer insights into what you think he should do with his life.This will only make him feel like a pathetic loser.
Show too much interest and he’ll be scared away, show not enough interest and he’ll be too afraid to make any moves, show just the right amount of interest and he’ll get bored.
Hold your own and don’t be afraid to walk away when you don’t get what you want, this is the only way to have a shot at getting what you want.